What comes in our mind when we hear the word “LOVE”, at the first instant? Yes, I know and we all know it.
I heard and even read many love stories. Romeo Juliet, Laila Majnu, Shahjahan Mumtaj….etc. But all these stories are picturised considering a relationship of all aspects of bonding between a girl and a guy. But the term “LOVE” goes far beyond these things. Why should we shrink our thoughts for love, by just looking at one corner of it? Let’s explore it.
Each heart beats for a love. Love, in other words, can be quoted as passion, affection, devotion and such ‘N’ no of aliases.
Every human love some or the other person at all stages. When we are born, we as a tenuous, new born baby, extortionately need a care, i.e. A mother’s love. Her hug, her care, her affection becomes a reason for our cells to function properly. She sheds her blood as milk and feeds you and lets u get a life.
Second stage of our life is our growth as a person in this world. I am focusing on a father’s love here. A father brings out his blood as sweat to let his child get all happiness that he/she deserves and wishes. Again, you are loved. Today, we stand here, in this world as a human being is all because of this love that is showered on us.
Likewise, brother’s supremacy, sister’s care, is all again, a kind of love.
Almost all emotions come out because of it... (Certainly, not all). Anger is a kind of love (Wondering how).Think. We burst out on someone in anger, just because, that someone will be very close to you.(Again, the person can be anyone.. Your Mom, Dad, Sis, Bro, Friend or any of your beloved). Relationship is split and given various names, but every relationship has one similarity in them, “LOVE”.
When we are in the developing phase, we enjoy our days; create memories from happy as well as sad moments, spent with our friends. These memories are preserved so that we can use them in the later stages.. Don’t you love your friend? Yes, you do! True friendship always has its roots called Love. As far as what I know, we as a person, will be completely known to our best friend, rather than anyone.. This love lets you know, what emotions are, how people are, and how we should be.
Next phase is called “Life”!! Here, I’m throwing light on the term “LOVE” in the sense we all know it. This definition is slightly difficult for me to make out. But I’m putting down whatever I think about it.
Do you know why so much of hypocrisy to this face of love. That’s because it is divine., if you really feel it. A person is always thirsty for a tender care.. Yes, he gets it , in some or the other means, but, we’ll always wish to have a shoulder for us to cry, a person as a pillar to protect you, to extricate you from all odds of life, a person who can understand you more than anyone does. We will be proud to get such a love.
One can say, we can be understood completely by many people, not necessarily one. Yes, you are right, but I specified a word ALWAYS which I’m stressing now. We will need a hand which goes along with us leading to a long lasting relationship.
We, as a person, as a human being, change every day. That is human nature and behavior varies with time. The variation can be good or bad, minute or major. So, a person can understand you, but not the dynamic changes in you, unless he/she spends time with you, as much as possible.
I always think because of all these considerations, there is so much of importance to this relationship (the so-called “Beloved Better Half”).
Last and final phase of our life is our counting days, when we again, need a care, as if we are a kid. And one fine day, we pass away leaving behind 1000’s of eyes shedding tears for you. Finally, this tear serves as “Love” for our soul…
Thus, Life is filled with love. Love lives till eternity, and makes us live. So, what I would request all of you is, try to respect love that you get from people, in any of the forms. And Shower love on others as much as possible from your side…
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