!!! Give a thought about yourselves !!!

Instances where you are not at all in love with a person and you still allow the person to come close to you & Instances where you are already in love with someone and you still allow somebody else to come so close to you
that you end up hurting the person and reasons given by people are "I couldn't resist, or I never knew how this happened"

Nobody is so innocent that they can never know how it happened - It happened because you allowed, & Nobody is so desperate that they can say that they couldn't resist - Were you not able to resist yourself when you see the same person with his/her spouse or a huge body builder by her side?

It is completely your mistake since you are the only person responsible and you end up covering them, unable to give reasons or answers to people.

Is it not similar to raping when you play with people's minds and emotions?

Nobody has the right to screw up people and waste their time and energy when all that you needed is worth peanuts compared to the efforts put in the play!

Strong people should condemn this kind of rape with them and learn just one thing... Never give up your self-respect for anybody or anything. Love is not at all complicated. If you are disrespected for your emotions, then there is no point striving for it because you don't really deserve it, it happens on its own with you, when the deserving person comes to your life...

Learn to give up, learn to smile, learn to fight against the persecution that happens to you. You are responsible to not let you dive in emotional atrocities and free yourself.

Live Life with full force that can teach good people, the good things from your life, and teach the people who don't value you to live their life the way they want. It doesn't really matter.

All that matters is every second of our life which is worth living and there are thousands of things to focus on and thousand other reasons to live than to feel having nothing in hands for something really stupid.

Sovereign yourself and stay as contended as you can, with the fortune cookies that life surprises you every day :)

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Life's Ups and Downs

“Betrayal is too kind a word to describe a situation in which a father says he loves his daughter but claims he must teach her about the horrors of the world in order to make her a stronger person; a situation in which he watches or participates in rituals that make her feel like she is going to die. She experiences pain that is so intense that she cannot think; her head spins so fast she can't remember who she is or how she got there.
All she knows is pain. All she feels is desperation. She tries to cry out for help, but soon learns that no one will listen. No matter how loud she cries, she can't stop or change what is happening. No matter what she does, the pain will not stop. Her father orders her to be tortured and tells her it is for her own good. He tells her that she needs the discipline, or that she has asked for it by her misbehavior Betrayal is too simple a word to describe the overwhelming pain, the overwhelming loneliness and isolation this child experiences.
As if the abuse during the rituals were not enough, this child experiences similar abuse at home on a daily basis. When she tries to talk about her pain, she is told that she must be crazy. "Nothing bad has happened to you;' her family tells her Each day she begins to feel more and more like she doesn't know what is real. She stops trusting her own feelings because no one else acknowledges them or hears her agony. Soon the pain becomes too great. She learns not to feel at all. This strong, lonely, desperate child learns to give up the senses that make all people feel alive. She begins to feel dead. She wishes she were dead. For her there is no way out. She soon learns there is no hope.
As she grows older she gets stronger. She learns to do what she is told with the utmost compliance. She forgets everything she has ever wanted. The pain still lurks, but it's easier to pretend it's not there than to acknowledge the horrors she has buried in the deepest parts of her mind. Her relationships are overwhelmed by the power of her emotions. She reaches out for help, but never seems to find what she is looking for The pain gets worse. The loneliness sets in. When the feelings return, she is overcome with panic, pain, and desperation.
She is convinced she is going to die. Yet, when she looks around her she sees nothing that should make her feel so bad. Deep inside she knows something is very, very wrong, but she doesn't remember anything. She thinks, "Maybe I am crazy.”
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I read it somewhere, which made so much sense ! Life is too difficult to be predicted or understood. When one cannot understand the behavior of somebody whom she thinks as a very close person, all she knows about the person is nothing. "If one can't help a person, at least, do not pretend to help and hurt the person so much that the help was never a help in reality but the gradual construction of a graveyard for that person, in which the person feels to voluntarily bury herself."
Life then, gives a helping hand to the person dumped underneath the graveyard, and states that this was not the life she deserved and gives her rebirth to a new one, filled with happiness.
That is the law of nature. Life's ups and downs are always in sinewaves. ... Always love your life...

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