Instances where you are not at all in love with a person and you still allow the person to come close to you & Instances where you are already in love with someone and you still allow somebody else to come so close to you
that you end up hurting the person and reasons given by people are "I couldn't resist, or I never knew how this happened"
Nobody is so innocent that they can never know how it happened - It happened because you allowed, & Nobody is so desperate that they can say that they couldn't resist - Were you not able to resist yourself when you see the same person with his/her spouse or a huge body builder by her side?
It is completely your mistake since you are the only person responsible and you end up covering them, unable to give reasons or answers to people.
Is it not similar to raping when you play with people's minds and emotions?
Nobody has the right to screw up people and waste their time and energy when all that you needed is worth peanuts compared to the efforts put in the play!
Strong people should condemn this kind of rape with them and learn just one thing... Never give up your self-respect for anybody or anything. Love is not at all complicated. If you are disrespected for your emotions, then there is no point striving for it because you don't really deserve it, it happens on its own with you, when the deserving person comes to your life...
Learn to give up, learn to smile, learn to fight against the persecution that happens to you. You are responsible to not let you dive in emotional atrocities and free yourself.
Live Life with full force that can teach good people, the good things from your life, and teach the people who don't value you to live their life the way they want. It doesn't really matter.
All that matters is every second of our life which is worth living and there are thousands of things to focus on and thousand other reasons to live than to feel having nothing in hands for something really stupid.
Sovereign yourself and stay as contended as you can, with the fortune cookies that life surprises you every day :)
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